Even though we claim to be living in modern times and we are tolerant, older men dating younger women is still a taboo subject for most people. Still, that doesn’t mean that you cannot enjoy such a relationship, if you managed to find a person with whom you can relate well. Younger women admit to being attracted to older men and older men looking for younger women are not such a new phenomenon. Such a thing has been happening since the beginning of time, the only difference being that no one talked about it so much. If you want to enjoy a successful relationship with a younger woman, especially if you do it for the first time, here are some cheat notes that may help you.
• Your relationship will not be seen with good eyes by some people
In the case of older men dating younger women, not everybody sees such a connection as being a good one. So if you start doing it, you may face some people around you that will criticize you and even try to separate you from your date. Just try to present the good side of the story in such situations, especially to your family members.
• Talking about having children
This is usually not a subject that pops up at a first date, but your date may ask the questions if she is curious enough. She is young, after all, and may think about having children at one point, so be prepared to talk about this as well.
• Be prepared to be stared at
Seeing an older man with a younger woman at his side will definitely stir some stares from the ones around you. They may try to figure out whether she is your daughter or you really got that lucky in finding a gorgeous young woman to date you. And yes, most stares are not positive ones.
• You may even have to face some jokes
Some people, even ones in your circle of friends, may start making jokes on the age gap between you and your date, if they find out that you dated a younger woman or if they see you with her. Well, after all, it is your happiness that counts the most and they may just be jealous about it, so ignore them.
• There are situations when you may feel embarrassed
If possible, ask your friends not to make bad jokes or mean remarks in front of your date, because that will put you in an embarrassing situation. If they still do it, you could answer back in the same manner, through a joke about some aspects of their lives. Also, it would be great to prepare your date for such things, in case you plan on going out together with your friends, so she won’t get upset, explaining to her that they may act this way because they are envious.
• But you enjoy approval from others in your situation
The truth is that you are not the only old guy dating a younger woman, many people being in precisely the same situation. You may find people that do this in your community if you look closer or you may get the chance to enter an online community of this kind, if you look closer on the Internet. There such subjects will not be avoided at all and you will definitely feel comfortable seeing just how spread this phenomenon is.
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